Narcissist Quotes to Help You Understand and Heal from Narcissist Abuse

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Updated: 3/4/2021 | Narcissist Quotes

Here are quotes and learnings that have helped us move beyond an abusive narcissist relationship.

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It’s hard to know if someone is lying if you know nothing about them. Take things slow. Set boundaries. Get to know who someone truly is before you delve in.

I knew from the beginning and he convinced me I was different. You are no different. They are the problem and you need to avoid their drama at all costs. Ignoring the red flags will only hurt you in the end.

It was a never ending cycle of fight and make up with my narcissist. You will never get closure. You will need to find closure yourself by moving on. There was never nothing you could say or do to make them love you the way you deserve to be loved.

Don’t waste your time on someone who won’t be consistent with you. One day you’re important and another you’re disposable. Don’t be with someone who is ok with losing you.

You were never the problem. They will always know they’re the problem but won’t admit fault. Just live a life without them. You’ll be better for it.

Don’t let anyone test you.

People will come into your life and test if you love them more than you love yourself. Don’t let anyone make you forget to love yourself first.

I Google’d every damn thing. I became an expert on how to identify a covert narcissist.

Pro tip: Before getting romantically involved with someone, Google their name to make sure they’re not a wolf in sheep’s clothing. This will prevent you from wasting your time.

I mean, this is how everyone felt. If this occurs, take it as a huge red flag.

Narcissists will make you run in circles around them. Recognize when this happens and end that behavior. Break that pattern to break free.

A relationship with the right person will be effortless. Identify the red flags immediately and get out before your soul is harmed.

You learn a lot about a person based on how they treat you when you’re not on good terms.

I would be stonewalled, given the silent treatment, and made to feel like I’m the crazy one. It was ALWAYS my fault when he overstepped boundaries and made me feel less.

He is constantly saying one thing and doing another. Recognize people who are inconsistent with you and get out for your own sanity.

Know when to get the fuck out. You deserve so much more.

And if you stay too long, don’t regret thinking that you wasted all this time. Be glad it ended so that better people and experiences can come your way.

I thought the inconsistency would change. Trust me. It never will. Inconsistency will make you feel depressed and like you are not worth being consistent with.

You deserve a straightforward and honest relationship. You deserve respect. That is not too much to ask for.

He apologized time and time again. Said he would change and still didn’t. It was very stupid and ignorant of me to believe it in the first place. People don’t change overnight nor do they really change significantly.

I also started to connect with people who are consistent and embrace change in a healthy, non-manipulative way.

Always stand up for yourself. Those who stay will be the ones who truly respect you.